Hayden Todd Durham

Hayden Todd Durham, age 5, passed away surrounded by the deep love of his family.

Hayden was a beautiful, radiant soul who touched everyone who had the privilege of knowing him. He loved his mommy and daddy, Vanessa McNeal and Chase Durham, and his mama Kait and daddy Cameron. He adored his siblings-Leighton, Scout, Carsyn, Caleb, and Caitlyn-and cherished every hug and kiss they gave him.

Hayden found joy in the simplest and sweetest moments. He loved to be rocked and bounced, and nothing brought out his bright, unforgettable smile quite like someone blowing gently in his face. His smile could light up any room, and his stunning blue eyes and long, perfect lashes were something everyone noticed. He was often called a "ladies' man," and truly, anyone who met him couldn't help but fall in love with him.

Though Hayden faced more medical challenges than any child ever should, he met each one with incredible courage. He was strong beyond words-braver than most people could ever imagine. His strength, resilience, and quiet determination inspired everyone around him.

Now, Hayden is finally free-able to walk, run, and play-and is side by side with loved ones who never had the chance to meet him.

Hayden's life, while far too short, was filled with immeasurable love. He taught those around him what true strength looks like, and what it means to love unconditionally.

He will forever be remembered as our beautiful boy, our strongest warrior, and the light of our lives.

He is deeply loved and will be missed beyond measure by his parents, step-parents, siblings, and all who were blessed to know him.

Visitation will be held from 5:00 PM - 7:00 PM at Hoy Kilnoski Funeral Home on Monday, April 06, 2026. Funeral Service will be held at 11:00 AM at Hoy Kilnoski Funeral Home on Tuesday, April 7, 2026. The family will direct memorials in Hayden's honor.